She does not have the same desire, values and want for the relationship right now that you do. You can not force, coherse, guilt, pressure or beg it on to her. She has to want if for herself. Anything you do to try to prove to her that it can work out, that it will be better, that you are changing. Only drive her more into her anti-relationship stance with you. It is the opposite of what she wants and is feeling right now. You can not force anyone to see things your way, believe what you do or feel how you do. They can only do that for themselves.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07