Morgan, Have you heard of Plan B on Marraige Builders ? I think it is the same as Going Dark. I have been on Day Two of Plan B. It is risky but empowering. The site warns that is harder for the LBS than the WS. I will not even initiate any email contact. Maybe you should not email either. The only contact should be kept at a pure minimum and only business. This is hard because I love bragging about the kids with him as he is the only other human who loves them as much as me, but his loss, mine too, theirs too. Boo hoo. Let's just say that today is the first day of the rest of our lives!


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."