General question for anybody who cares to comment. How do you DB and detach at the same time? Psychologically, they are two mutually contradictory activities, at least for me.
That is exactly what I am struggling with right now. The two seem to work against each other. Hopefully your moving into an apt with your S, will help with the detachment and at the same time help your wife miss you.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
