Hey all, pass this on to whomever you think may be interested. I have a book called "Should I Stay or Go?" by Lee Raffel. It is the one my C had me buy and give to W at the beginning of all this. Well, you know the story so I don't need it anymore. I read nearly all of it (too bad W didn't) and it really makes sense. Basically it is about how to go through a separation together. Setting boundries and rules. If anyone is approaching this point, I highly reccomend this book. It has you draw up a contract that covers every question regarding the S and what is and is not OK. From holding hands to dating others. Anyway, you can get it on ebay or Amazon for cheap, but it is here free for the taking. Let me know if you want it and we can contact each other to get the address I should mail it to. Thsi is a large network here, so you all have surely been interacting with others that I have not. Send them my way if you know someone who coudl use this. While I enjoy selling things on ebay, one of my goals is to take a more vested inetrest in others. This will help me do that. Most people get separated, but have no idea what to do or even have goals to acheive. This is a good map.
Will be back later with updates on me. C went well, who knows what W is thinking. Who cares? I like time and feel like I keep gaining more. Now back to my comp sitch, that'll bring me down a notch LOL!
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