"Sadly, I think your only option is to LRT (Last Resort Technique: see DB or DR... I thought DR was the better of the two when in separation and divorce)."
I am there,going dark grey keeping the face to face to an absolute min...email/text is my new friend
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"Do NOT be angry, blaming, BITTER (that's the big one to avoid!!!), or mean. The divorce is probably going to go through because of the time. But do not poison that relationship. WORK ON FRIENDSHIP. Even if only for the kids. They really need that."
Every day /moment I have to forgive and give it to God,keeping my heart open to healing...the friendship thing,I am just working on being friendly...
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"And don't date or go crazy!!"
...What the heck is date ? I know...trying to create the mystery...got any ideas ?
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"Do you have a great lawyer?"
..if there where lawyer allstars in our state he would be an MVP...
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"What's the custody???"
...shared...half/half...but since I stayed in our home the kids come to the house every day after school...this allows me to see them almost every day...if push came to shove I could be the primary care giver, but I am not pushing it...
Thanks ...SorryDog
Me 47 W 42 D 20 S 18 D 13 S 11 Married 17 yrs Asked for D Mothers Day PA found out on 6/14/07 W filed D 7/3/07 D court date 9/10/07 W moved out 7/17/07
