(ie: if he IS dating someone else, then all that blather about "yeah, stand tough, insist that he come after YOU", is just a really sneaky manipulation for you to just not bother him while he's out dating another person)
Either way- time for me to listen, I think.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing