Separate the money from the emotion, and deal with the money as purely business (that includes the legal sep question). Take care of yourself and DD in the best way you can. That won't mess up any future chances with your H, if he's any kind of a decent man (and Dad) at all.
What state are you in? There's some info on the web that can be helpful. But that said, definitely consult a L - laws are so different state to state, and you need to know at a minimum what you're entitled to. You can't afford the house on your own income, but what about with child support?? (for example) You may be able to get a short free or low cost consultation.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
