Hey cat,

Been a while.

You might feel a little better if you don't reach out to him more than he's reaching out to you.

I know...that doesn't really feel any better. But it does help with the detachment if you can be willing, but also content within yourself.

Hang tough!

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'