(((((Irish)))))))) I don't have advice about the legalities because I haven't gone that route. It seems that your questions would be best directed to an attorney on how to best protect yourself. The worst thing for you to do is sit idley by and watch a bunch credit be racked up; plus I would want to make sure you are doing the right thing about the house.
This is a horrible position to be in. You need to protect yourself and you can only do that with good legal counsel.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing