To paraphrase an old saying, "Do you want to [avoid pain], or do you want to be married?"
it's your choice to avoid pain or not. Just be aware of the potential trade off between avoiding it now, vs hanging a bit longer.
if we KNEW he was dating someone else, the choices might have been a bit easier. but with him in this wierd limbo state, things seem a bit less clear.
(ie: if he IS dating someone else, then all that blather about "yeah, stand tough, insist that he come after YOU", is just a really sneaky manipulation for you to just not bother him while he's out dating another person)
Last edited by Dom R; 08/21/0709:17 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
