Gwyn, I agree with Lou... you don't have to be embarrassed about posting ANYTHING here.
Go to http://www.google.com and enter the phrase "delayed ejaculation" in quotes and you'll get a bunch of stuff that may be informative.
One other question... when this happens, has he been drinking? There is a phenomenon referred to by the yukky name of "whiskey dick" where a guy who is drunk will take forever to come...
