I have found out to keep your expectations low or don't expect anything from them then you won't be disappointed when things don't happen.
That was the plan. I thought that I was keeping my expectations low, but I guess there is no predicting WAW's. The only thing steady about her right now is her unsteadiness. Never know what I am gonig to get from day to day.
On a positive note, I just got a text from her saying "thanks for the card, im sorry". I texted her back and told her you are welcome and what are you sorry for. She said for not doing anything for anniversary. I told her she did not have to apologize just that I wanted her to know I was thinking about it and that I didn't expect her to do anything for anniversary. So a day late but at least she acknowledged the anniversary, albeit she still did not say "happy anniversary". She just texted me back saying she was thinking about it too. I feel like I should respond but not sure what to say. I feel like it was a good exchange and maybe I should just let it go as it is. Why is this so hard?
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07