Originally Posted By: Lou
My biggest repeating thought is “Why isn’t what I do for us and what we have enough. Why does she want 80% of the goodies from life while she usually is only willing to do 40% of the work.



She would be like this with ANYONE. This need to have everything is all about her and nothing about you. If you bought her everything in the world, it would not be enough. It puzzles me why you think there might someday be an end to this.

I was wondering when was the last time she did something spontaneously to let you know she LOVES you-- something that was not in direct response to your completing a chore, buying her something, doing her a favor. I had something in mind a little more demonstrative than touching your foot with her foot or putting her arm around you briefly. Buying you a present? Making your favorite meal? Looking at you with a big, sweet smile? Initiating a big long hug FOR NO REASON AT ALL.






I completely agree with her about the Vick thing, except that I think he should be executed... or tossed into a pit with hungry wolves... or made to live in a cage at an animal shelter for a year. The man is the lowest kind of scum in my book. I was outraged when I heard about the dogfighting thing, I was outraged, but when I read that he "executed" dogs who failed their viciousness audition my outrage knew no bounds.