I have the pdf that you mention but I have not read it. I agree that when confronted by my W I should not defend myself. Actually this afternoon she called me to give me a heads up about what her L is sending to my L. She then went into some of the details about the finances of it all. Again she brought up the house and how she should get half of the equity. Again, her L did not agree with what I proposed and what I propose will not stand up to a judge. I just told her that I will just leave it in our L's hands and not talk about it anymore. She then paused and said "Thank you for steering us away from an argument. And thanks again for what you did last night". I think I can avoid most confrontation by taking emotion out of it and not trying to hash every detail out with her.
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Scott...don't cave. Promise me you won't cave for them. Don't fail. DO NOT LET YOUR W MAKE YOU FAULTER AND BE ANYTHING LESS THAN THE ROCK.
Frank, no matter how this all shakes out in the end, I will stand strong not for myself, but for my girls. They deserve a daddy who is a rock and able to make wise decisions for them. They are awesome girls.....
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My D4's love brings me to my knees and if you want to see a 6ft tall guy get all mushy and bent outta shape, just come over here and watch my D4 greet me.
This is the same seen in my house everyday(I'm 6'1). It hurts to know this will not occur for me everyday of my life like it now does. There is something that is almost magical when our D's yell out "Daddy" and come running into our arms. Truly moments to cherish.
Looks like a good book for me to read to D5. It is a good lesson for her right now with all that is going on in her young life.
Thanks for taking time out of you hectic life to stop by my thread.
