Well, I had called him yesterday about the yard. I went to see T yesterday afternoon and she said I should call him and be assertive. Hmmm...not so sure that was a good idea. It seemed to make him mad that I was even asking....which in turn made me mad that he didn't think it was his responsibility. I just never thought in a million years thought he would treat me like this. It's like he hates me and I just don't understand.
After that I saw an email from him...not asking me...but telling me that I needed to take a day off work to take care of the car. He has sat around and waited until the last minute...and once again I am catering to him. He is so selfish.
THEN, after that....he had sent me an email that he changed the password to the checking account and that he had taken me off of it. I would need to get my own account. I don't think you can just "take someone off" of a joint account. Well, I just changed the password back. The nerve of him. MY check direct deposits into that account, and several bills automatically come out of that account. I don't think he did what he thought he was doing though. I logged into "my own account" like he told me...and it was still just the same joint account. Should I get a lawyer?? T thinks I should talk to one, but I am not sure how much that costs.
On a brighter note...I had my phone interview this morning. It went really well. They want me to come there for a site interview. That means another trip home! YAY! Plus...they foot the bill! Yay again! They even said they could make it on a Friday so i could stay through the weekend if I wanted and spend some time with my family. I really hope that I get this. I think it is the best thing that could happen to me right now. It pays A LOT more than I am making right now, plus I could live with my mom for a while which would take the financial strain off a bit.
Yeah, I hate that they have all the power and can threaten things like that. The first time I actually showed some anger towards H, that is when he went and did the checking account thing. That makes me so mad, I feel like I am powerless in this situation.
