I'm kind of in the same boat - no papers have been filed, but he still keeps coming around, finding reason to see me. This week we are going to a concert. I had not heard from him for 9 days, so I was wondering if we were still on. Anyhow, I ran into him yesterday - and he brought it up asking if we were still on. I was glad I didn't have to. It sure does twist your thinking, here they are wanting to D you, but still accept & sugguest time together. But I agree with wilmasoon - it good. It gives them a chance to see the new you - and take a second look. I was reading that people should take at least a year, before they D, because many of times, their feelings change & wished they had worked harder. By the way Nugget - that "ACT AS IF" over train of thought is helping me. I know I'm not giving up, but it good to think it's over - but with an open mind to reconciliation. Ya - I just have to keep believing I'll be okay, not bring up any R talk with him and keep PRAYING! I hope it will change in the right direction for all of you!
So any tips on my "DATE" with my hubby this week?
Both - 38 Step D -16 Together 4+, Married 3(in Sept), friends 7 S Bomb - April 07
"He who pursues righteousness and love finds life,prosperity and honor."
