Are you sure the A is over, and that he is not having a new one?
Yes, I'm sure. I actually asked him this and he denied it. I also asked if it wasn't an OW, was he getting his needs met another way and he again said no.
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The ED is not strictly age related so don't count it as normal just because he reached a certain age.
The way that I understand ED (and I'll admit, I'm pretty stupid when it comes to this stuff), if he had ED, then he would not be able to become hard, that's not the case, he just doesn't ejaculate. You know, we've been together for a total of 9 years and he's always been like this so I'm not sure it's an OW thing, he may just rather ejaculate someway other than through intercourse. What do you all think? I'm confused. But I'm also concerned enough to ask if it could be another EA/PA or masterbation or porn. How will I ever know? I've asked him and that's all if have is his word (which by the way, doesn't have a great record).
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Gwyn, first let me invite you to not be embarrassed. Once you post here, what you have posted will seem tame.
Thank you so much for this. I have no brothers and my father is dead and my mom would die if I asked for help in this matter, so I appreciate the ability to talk to someone about these issues.
