Awhile back I read "Revenge of the Middle Aged Housewife." Those of you whose husband's have left for OW will appreciate it, and even get something positive out of it. (By the way, not to tell too much about the book, but the "revenge" part is a very positive "life well lived").
Even better, the author wrote a sequel from the OW's POV (dreary life as the second wife!!!!). Great book too!!! It's called "Wives Behaving Badly."
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
