H told me the other day that ow and her h were seperating in Oct, so I asked him was he really only here until she is free and then he is going to leave then, he said no, he is here to stay.
This is what I dont get, H and OW has other R's and yet they wanna be together, for what? This is so selfish, leave one R to get into another R. What ever happends to ending a R and being alone and then get into a fresh R. What is happening to all of us? Is leaving the current M solves all problems? NO it doesnt, the problem baggage still tags along.
I am in the same boat, W is M. OM is still M and they wanna have a R - wth.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...