[runningoutoftime]

Talking about tunes.... just before the first court date, and just before this song became popular... I copied it on disc, and put it in a card (love and friendship). I also added some of the lyrics to the card and gave it to my husband....

Did I disappoint you or let you down?
Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown?
'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun,
Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won.
So I took what's mine by eternal right.
Took your soul out into the night.
It may be over but it won't stop there,
I am here for you if you'd only care.
You touched my heart you touched my soul.
You changed my life and all my goals.
And love is blind and that I knew when,
My heart was blinded by you.
I've kissed your lips and held your head.
Shared your dreams and shared your bed.
I know you well, I know your smell.
I've been addicted to you.

Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

I am a dreamer but when I wake,
You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take.
And as you move on, remember me,
Remember us and all we used to be
I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile.
I've watched you sleeping for a while.
I'd be the father of your child.
I'd spend a lifetime with you.
I know your fears and you know mine.
We've had our doubts but now we're fine,
And I love you, I swear that's true.
I cannot live without you.

Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.

And I still hold your hand in mine.
In mine when I'm asleep.
And I will bear my soul in time,
When I'm kneeling at your feet.
Goodbye my lover.
Goodbye my friend.
You have been the one.
You have been the one for me.
I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow.
I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.

--James Blunt, "Goodbye My Lover"

[theoden]

ROOT,

OMG....that's a slit your wrists kind of song.

By the way, I saw your pic and your husband is insane.

--theoden

[bobelina]

--James Blunt, "Goodbye My Lover"
Wow !!! Awesome lyrics. Wow.
BoB

[bobelina]

Oopsss... Duplicate Post.

[theoden]

Mark,

I'll echo what you said.

I see the pics of all your kids and want to start crying.

I see the pics of your spouses and realize that love is powerful thing.

--Theoden

[SorryDog]

Hurt me ...I don't get it,probably never will.. ( oh yea we live in a broken world )...SorryDog

[SorryDog]

if you want listen to this song..."Goodbye My Lover" SorryDog

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Ihmm1xhfCU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQhRfGvYTCM

[runningoutoftime]

Theoden,

Thanks for the nice compliment. My husband's OW was much younger, much more successful, extremely social (party girl), fun to be with, and that seemed much better at the time. He thought that would bring happiness.

There is always something that "appears" better out there and unfortunately there are people who will give up what they have, something much more valuable than they realize, for what they think will be the key to their happiness.

[theoden]

ROOT,

Well...it's one of those things we must turn over to God.

Some of the Psalms in the Old Testament are poems about people venting their anger at other people in God's presence. He's just, he sees all. His timing is perfect.

Offer it to him.

--Theoden

[RedHeadWife]

I read & read a lot of Psalms during my D sitch. Lots of good stuff there.