Aack. OK, I'll tell her that I don't want to know if they decide to follow through on an intervention, but to at least wait until after the final settlement 11/19.
Believe me, I am not pretending that this will work magic and make H rush into my arms. But maybe it will be enough to get him out of his narrow mindset and seek counseling, even if on his own. I am not only concerned about myself and our R...
I think of what our kids are going through. And how much H is walking away from--not only me, but kids, home, financial security, his parents, family, friends, and his own integrity. I worry about him, when (and if) the realization of what he has done sets in. So many people are being hurt by this. I still care for him and hate to see all that happen. I know it is his choice, but it is so hard to stand by and watch someone you love tear their whole world apart...then again, he could be completely right, and he knows what he needs best--we could all be off-base on what he needs to be happy. If only it wasn't so vastly different than anything else in his 36 years...
