(cobra, quoting me) I've clearly taken it upon myself to discern which of the things they say will have meaning for me and which won't. I've essentially taken them out of the loop and am making all the decisions myself.
In the original post, I said this is what *you're* doing when you only take the positives that people tell you and not the negatives. You're saying, "I'm not going to listen to the negative you tell me, only the good." So how would you answer the questions you asked? Does this mean that you maintain a certain wall, certain level of detachment. Are you allowing others to have an emotional connection to you if you only allow in their positive input? How close do you think they want to get to you?
Then why do the ladies that seem distant to you bother you?
Why do you think it bothers me?
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