dlt1, if you enjoy watching the pups, then by all means watch them, Animals are great, I myself am a dog person, W is a cat person, there's that opposite thing again, LOL, But I don't hate cats, just like dogs more. It was like this in our house,
I being a dog lover, wanted the whole house to have a wolves decor, and she being a cat lover wanted the whole house to have tigers, So we compromised, all through the house, some wolves, some tigers, and some eagles, polar bears, dolphins, motorcycles, and guitars, (We both like eagles, and the rest)
Compromise is the one thing, that when we have/had our heads on straight and put our emotions on hold, we could/can easily do. You see me and my W, are different, but we are also the same, in more ways than either of us would ever like to admit. LOL.
Sounds like yours and you are like that, too. And believe it or not it is that same part of us, that gives us the most trouble. Let me ask you this, Could you live with an exact clone of yourself? The answer is NO, you would destroy it, probably in the first week. The similarities, would drive you insane. Not sure why I am getting off on this rant, but hey if it helps, Then great, if not then it helps me with my typing speed, LOL.
Going to your friends house, would most likely be the best option, unless, you tell your W, and she offers to let you sleep there, then she has opened a door for you, but don't ask, or push the issue, just explain the sitch to her, and let her make the move. (Dating 101, LOL)
Yes, I have lived, and Man, am I learning, Take care.
