I would be mad if someone helped themselves to my cookies. (That sounds like a double entendre)
Anyhoo-- keep on keeping on. I am watching to see how this goes for you as I am reaching the point of wanting to actually put a boundary on the sharing of personal life activities.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing