Trying to set those goals!

[NikB]

Since he wants to feel totally broken up, doesn't this idea fly in the face of what he wants?

Hmmm...

Well, it's not really your responsibility to "make" him feel a certain way, so try to keep that in mind. But with that said, it's a tough one - choosing between keeping the positive connections going vs. stepping back completely. I think it might be good to test the waters a bit, think of something fun and different to do and then invite him to go (and don't be too upset if he says no, just brush it off.. and go do whatever it is anyway!).

Since you don't know how to ride, you're right, that wouldn't really work so well... maybe there's something else though.

Can you take motorcycle lessons somewhere?? That might be fun!