Dom - I agree with you that it's a good idea to ask him on some kind of fun/exciting date and see how he responds. Connecting that way sounds really good right now.
Since he wants to feel totally broken up, doesn't this idea fly in the face of what he wants?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
