Yeah, working on that. Rain gave me this link:
http://www.coping.org/control/detach.htm
Take a read. It's less about caring, more about letting go of control and actions. Not that it makes it easier ;\)

Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643