WAW filing for D

[dlt1]

Oh yes, I know that releasing anger towards W will not help anything.
"Is what I'm about to do going to help or hurt me in attaing my goal?"
I plan on watching the dogs this time. Heck, I'll get to walk them, which is one of my goals! The fact that she tried to have someone else watch them tells me she isn't expecting things of me and realizes she can no longer ask or expect me to be there to help. Kind of saddening that she is preparing to move on. But, healthy that I do not expect to have to deal with a it ongoing. However, I will stand my ground should she ask again.
I am also debating about the Thurs before Labor Day, as I am not sure I will have a bed that night. Could push the issue to stay at her, slash that, OUR house for one night. Kind of a test. Hmmmm, that is the devil shoulder talking I think. I think I'll pass on that idea. No good comes from it. One night on the couch or at a friend's wonlt hurt, since I leave that morning for vacation. Might as well be with the friends I am riding up with.
Good for yo on standing your ground. Sux how you handled it, but live and learn!