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There are two possible reasons for him to take the motorcycle gear. 1) He is going on a ride, or 2) He wants to make you jealous by making you THINK he is going on a ride. If (1) then either (1a) he is going alone but carelessly took the whole box of gear or (1b) he needs the extra gear for his biker ho.


Let me tell you--if some other woman wears MY stuff I will be peeIssed!

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And even if only (1a) he will still wonder why you happened to think of riding just after he took the stuff.


Precisely my thought.

Alright, I'll just sit on it.

Someone at the divorce support group TOTALLY "got" why I am so upset he is doing everything I suggested for 'us' to do. She had begged her H for years to go on a vacation and travel. he was always "too busy" and didn't "see the point". Now that they are divorced he is traveling all the time.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing