But the rest of what you wrote in your latest post kinda worries me. She's "letting" him slip away? How does she have any control over that? He MOVED OUT and said he wants to be broken up. Totally agree that some changes, 180s, etc. might work but I don't think "1 to 2 days" are going to make a whole lot of difference - it took him a long time to get to this point, he's not going to change his mind in a day. And I really think there's very little in terms of her H that Agent99 has any control over right now. Yeah, a drastic 180 might be a good idea to shake things up - but there is no perfect magic thing that she can do today to control what he decides. I know we ALL wish there was, but there really isn't.
Thanks. I hate to think that I only have a day or two window to change things. I also think that I need to be careful of my 180s. Since his first assumption was I was avoiding him (good call on his part since that was part of my motivation), he will probably believe that any 180s I do are reactionary and not self motivated.
I sure wish I *could* invite him out on a motorcycle date.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
