thanks gals, how sad, that issue (being sued) is taking a back seat over what we are going through (a while age my H and I would be talking about it all the time)
Again loaded with work, so I'll make this short and sweet. Apparently H and I are not understanding each other, he wanted a definite yes or no from me and I wanted HIM to decide. Apparently since I didnt' say no (though he know I didn't want him leaving in so many words) he thought there was still a chance. We talked a little bit, told me first that I was baiting him, then said I should just speak my mind and that if the trip will get him thrown out of the house then he wouldnt' do it, that I'm more important than the trip. That a trip isnt' so bad (well duh, but not now!) and he still didnt' understand what was wrong with it.
Soooooo, we'll save it for the C, but we almost reach an agreement, that if airlines dont' charge him too much he can go for one night and a day and a half.
Jeez, my finger is going to fall off, we txt each other like crazy in the am since I had disconnected the phone and turned off my cell at night (he still had sent like 20 txt msgs)
Anyways, where's that chocolate?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.