um, SD, why are you not wanting her to be your friend? You are working on saving your M right?


I understand the hurt from having a WAS having an affair, but if DBing to save your M, you can't refrain from becoming friends

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."