dlt1, As I just re-read your post, I noticed something about your sitch, that has a striking resemblance to what happened to me about 2 weeks ago.

Originally Posted By: dlt1
What really ticks me off is when she told me to get a hotel as I was looking at the possibility of not having a place for a week. But then she asks me for a favor!?!


My W, actually asked me to pick up the kids, early on my normal day, so she could go to a Children of Divorce class, which she said to get the D, she had to go to, and I am supposed to go too, as well, but since I don't really want the D, I am putting off till it either the class or the D, gets dropped.

Anyway, What nerve, don't you think? Believe me, I didn't handle it very well, I got angry, and said H*ll No! How dare you ask me something like that, I am not going to help you destroy our family! Huge fight ensued, and I almost lost my time with the kids, then I posted the sitch on my thread, and Man, did everyone come down on me, they knew I was right, in the way I felt, but also knew that the way I relayed that to her, was all wrong! I then seen their point, sometimes we do have to get hit over the head, in order to understand!

Anyway that is the reason, I had to stop you from making the same mistake I did! I sure hope that you will take it from the heart. Take care.


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