Morgan - I know you asked Dom but hope you don't mind me replying too, since I'm here. I don't think there's any way to know, especially because often I don't think THEY know for sure either. Maybe they're done with the "old" you but if you make positive changes in your life, they may be interested in the "new" you... or maybe they've totally slipped away, are heavily into an R with someone else, then a year or two or three from now will decide they've made a mistake and want to come back (at which point you decide if you still want them).
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
I don't think there's any way to know, especially because often I don't think THEY know for sure either. Maybe they're done with the "old" you but if you make positive changes in your life, they may be interested in the "new" you... or maybe they've totally slipped away, are heavily into an R with someone else, then a year or two or three from now will decide they've made a mistake and want to come back (at which point you decide if you still want them).