Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

I don't know how those of you who are dealing with your spouse with OP can deal with it. The though of my wife being intimate with the OM drives me crazy and completely occupies my thoughts. Especially when she indicates she still wants to work on our marriage but she just needs space. If our marriage was over I could probably forget about it and go on.

It's an obsession I wish I could get rid of but I just don't know how.

Svejk