My wife wants out !!

[dadtotwo]

I have taken the last few days to really see whether my marriage can be saved. I don't see it being possible even if I turned our financial situation around. I just think that if my W feels that her affection is better for OM than her husband, she has concluded that since her feeling for me are gone..they won't come back. If anyone asked me I would have said we were meant for each other. The constant struggle took it's toll on her and now her heart is elsewhere.

She is moving out on Saturday with children and there is no stopping her. Her mind is made up that D is the solution since there will never be stability with me. I won't live my life hoping that she will "see the light" and not break apart our family forever. I have to respect myself to not be 2nd choice. She has taken away her heart to me and given it so easily to OM and is acting like a women falling in love all over again.

I admire those here that continue to burn the candle of hope for reconciliation. I need to let go so I don't wind up with a tremendous disappointment down the road.

I love my W and we didn't work together to solve our problems. It hurts 10,000 times more than leaving that she is now in spirit with some one else.

I have to take care of me and move on...Best to all!