Dave, she is not interested in the tools you are offering her yet, because she is not sure if she is going to have a need for them. She is asking you for her space to decide whether or not she wants to work on things with you. Be patient, I know you want to fix it NOW. Give her the space she is asking you for. I see a huge positive for you. She says she not ready for that now. She is not telling you I am done for ever, go away, stop bugging me. She is asking for some time and space. So give it to her. Your pushing and pressuring to fix it, is only going to break it more.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
