Thanks KS...but not to worry, I already told her that since she is the one who wants this, it's to be all on her. It's still hard not to feel like a bit of a schmuck tho-I still have my ring on and have been 100% faithful through our entire R/M/S, and she was always telling me that she was worried I would get bored with her and stray. Funny (and sad) how that works. In some ways, it's almost a relief knowing about the A, but it's also the hardest thing I have ever had to accept. Part of me wants to keep Dbusting and try to get her to come around to working on our M, and part of me just doesn't even see the use anymore. Mind you that she hasn't admitted to anything, but it's pretty obvious that she has been seeing him through most of the S, and possibly before. Only proof so far is the cell bill and a sibling of hers who mentioned she thinks W may be seeing someone on the sly. Until this discovery I was 100% about saving the M, now I just don't know.
