So, here is my newest question- When I got home, he had moved a ladder to get into a cabinet. I was curious, so I looked in the cabinet and I *believe* that a box that has the leather chaps and stuff for motorcycle riding is gone. My chaps are in there. I don't want him to have my motorcycle stuff. If I should meet anyone else that rides, I want to be able to go. (side note- if he is going motorcycle riding, too....ARGH!!!!!!!!! I had been suggesting since the winter that we needed to go riding this summer.GRRRRRRRRRRRR...Really really ticks me off that NOW he is doing these things.)
Anyway-I want to ask him if he took that box and if my chaps are in there because I want them back; but I don't want it to look like I'm "spying" or something because I checked in the cabinet to see what was missing.
Suggestions?
well, my little passive aggressive self would say, next time you talk, (or e-mail), say, hey, a friend wants to go riding and I'm looking for my chaps, but can't seem to find the box. any idea where it might be? I looked in x spot and its gone. or even leave out the friend part, and just say you were looking for them.
not sure if that's a good or a bad thing, but its what I would probably do.
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