... and to expand on that, it's a pretty healthy boundary, too. I am just starting to even understand the concept of boundaries - but it was a real wake up call when Oldtimer pointed out to me from an "outside" view how disrespectful it is (to yourself) to be having sex with him while he's not committed to you... makes it tough for him to respect you too.
Yes! That I get!
Okay-anyone out there have a way to ask for my chaps without looking like I was spying?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
