... and to expand on that, it's a pretty healthy boundary, too. I am just starting to even understand the concept of boundaries - but it was a real wake up call when Oldtimer pointed out to me from an "outside" view how disrespectful it is (to yourself) to be having sex with him while he's not committed to you... makes it tough for him to respect you too.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread