Fearless: I think the deepness of the wound is much less of an issue and the bigger issue is whether a person is even aware of being wounded.
Cobra: This is simply not true. People who have been severely traumatized can come to know their wounds through counseling or whatever, but still, getting over those wounds can be next to impossible.
You might be right. I may be too much of an optimist. It is hard for me to believe that some people are simply doomed to being so irrevocably and deeply wounded that they can never be healed.
But I fully admit that I could be wrong with my thinking and that I might just be too optimistic!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus