But as with everything in the world, there are some people who will never get it, simply because their wounds are too deep.
I am not sure I believe that people will never get it because their wounds are too deep. I think the deepness of the wound is much less of an issue and the bigger issue is whether a person is even aware of being wounded. If you don't know you are wounded, then how can you heal yourself??
I also think that what happens is much of the time is that when others sense your wound (if they are fusing/enmeshing type personalities) they will try to "care" for the wounds which in turn don't allow them to heal because the wounded person does not become fully aware of they are wounded.
Just my thoughts...
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus