So I pretty much got the warm reception from him on this I had expected! I asked him what he thought about it and so far no answer, so I pretty much guess I have my answer.
Funny last week he said that was willing to do whatever it took! ha!

Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda