Stew, I have found out to keep your expectations low or don't expect anything from them then you won't be disappointed when things don't happen. I have wrote my H letters just saying I was sorry about things that I did but he has never even acknowledged them to me. I just keep the hopes up that maybe he will either keep them or maybe they will help him to soften up his heart if/when he is ready.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
