Unfortunately for me she has been conditioned to be not confident in things since she was young. Her father has pretty much drilled in her head that if it's something you don't think you can do you shouldn't even attempt. And if you are going to do it it better be perfect. A simple example: Those kids toys with assembly required. She'll get them and say she'll put them together. She takes one look at the instructions and gives up. I always end up putting them together. She doesn't even try.
I just really hope that she finds the strength to really try with our M no matter how hard it is.... She said she need at least 30 days. I'm hoping that she might be open to BT if things don't progress for her. I'll give her all the space she needs. I definitely do not want her to call it quits in 30 days. Of course what I'm really hoping for is that at the end she wants to commit to work on the M and we can move forward.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
