atlas,

Good to know that you're getting better. How about that hot doc?

I had to come to the same place you are. You can't stop your W from filing. So, the best thing you can do is to be nice about it. Be calm and just discuss things rationally. My W and I went through a mediator (actually, apointment at one today to finalize the financial stuff). Emotionally, you have to decide if there's anything left in you for her. In my case, I think there is. How long that'll last, I don't know. I'd probably be willing to give it another shot with her, if just for our girls, for at least another few months. After that, I don't know. I do know that I'm going to move on. Toying around with the idea of dating, just to see what that's like.

Anyway, just be nice. Funny how we both got to this place at about the same time, eh? Who knows, 6 months from now we might be in piecing or we might be over in dealing with D.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.