Andy,
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It sounds like your husband is too scared to be around you or something. I reckon he is acting the same as my wife. The more they are with us the more they regret what they have done. Out of sight out of mind. And with bringng OW with him, she is his security blanket.
I agree. I think that he can't be around me...that would mean that he has to deal with this. OW gets freaked out if he is around me...she knows that there are still feelings there. At one point, she told my SIL, if only he would stay away from XXXX, everything will be okay. Yeah, him staying away from me will fix all your problems...keep believing that. She forgot me being married to my H isn't the problem...her being involved with a married man is. He will officially be out of this marriage in one week. He has not honestly given me one day of his time in the last 10 months since he's been involved with OW. She is constantly calling, texting, and with him. He's been worried about living with regrets since this all started....when his relationship with OW is over in a few months, his pride is gone, and he has lost everything he will realize he should have honestly tried with me for a month before he walked out of this forever...It's his loss.


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