So true. That's what I dont get. You try to do something new and you get negative feedbacks. Your H is finding so much excuses. H needs to work on this and the R will be rebuilding, make a note of this situation. H should make every effort to be there for the girls. That is something I now do, I make D important and a priortity over anything else.

Since W dont want to go to dinner with me on Fridays, D and I go alone and I treat my D as my date. How nice!

My W changed her display name on her email as if to make a statement. But still her signature shows her married name - wtf! Positive attitutde J positive attitude J.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...