You are never going to know how you will feel until things happen.
You are blowing your mind with all these what if's.....
And don't a lot of couples get back together again after D?
It's just such sh*t that they have to put one another and their kids through hell to get there.
The trouble is that the balance in the R changes all the time depending on what each partner in the M wants and trying to keep up with the emotional rollercoaster AND the changes of 'power' is just so hard. Especially if one of the parties is getting off on the drama.
That's where this place is so great because one can vent or discuss ideas etc and then go back and face one's S with less anger and resentment, (and a few good new strategies).
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But as far as selling our new dream home, moving into different places, meeting different people, I think that would be all too much to fix.
You just don't know that until you get there. For some people this it what it takes to make things work again for them. I know that I have thought quite often about moving away from where we are, (AS A FAMILY UNIT), and having a 'fresh' start somewhere. Take each day as it comes and enjoy the fact that it sounds like she is regretting what she did..........
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
